The Memory Tree
Average Rating: 5.0
Country: South Africa
Ages: 5-8
Author: Savnola Goldridge
Publisher: Book Dash
Illustrator: Agrippa Hlophe

About The Story

When a loved one dies, instead of trying to shield children by not talking to them about the death of the loved family member, or even a beloved pet, one must encourage them to express their feelings and also to comfort them. In some cases children go into a state of depression. It is important for a caregiver and/or, a teacher to recognize those symptoms and take appropriate action, and, if necessary, seek professional help.

Themes

Health & Wellbeing
Family & Friends
Social & Emotional Learning (SEL)

Sub Themes

Death of a loved one
Helping children grieve

Parent-Teacher Guide

Learning Outcome

  • Begin to understand the concept of loss and grief.
  • Learn ways to remember loved ones positively.
  • Feel reassured that it’s normal to feel sad or confused after a loss.
  • Recognize the importance of sharing feelings with family or trusted adults.
  • Reflect on meaningful memories as a source of comfort.

Activities

  • 1. Create a Memory Tree: Children can draw or build their own memory trees with photos or drawings.
  • 2. Feelings Journal: Encourage children to write or draw about someone they miss.
  • 3. Story Circle: Invite children to share stories of people or pets they love or have lost.

Story Discussion Guide

Before reading

  • Have you ever missed someone or something special to you?
  • What are some ways we remember people we love?

During reading

  • How are Thembi and Thulani feeling in the story?
  • What does the family do to honor Grandpa Nathi?

After reading

  • What is a memory tree? What memories would you put on one?
  • How did the children feel before and after creating the tree?
  • Why is it important to talk about our feelings?

Applicable Sustainable Development Goals

SDG 3 — Good Health and Well-being

Promotes emotional well-being and mental health in children coping with loss

SDG 4 – Quality Education

Encourages supportive family and school environments where emotional expression is nurtured.

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